❤Perfect Match❤💕

Ella found herself in her Aunty’s kitchen in a quest for true love. It’s been over two months she heard about the “Perfect Match”. It dawned on her that she needed something more than love, a fascinating soul, a him that makes the hymn melodious. During her teenage years, she spent most of her time digesting the content of the Jungle Book where she learnt more about the king of the Jungle. This made her add “bravery” to the qualities of her Mr. Right.

Right in the kitchen, she picked a Match Box. In a twinkle of an eye, she got buried in the admiration of the resemblance of the Match Sticks. In addition to “bravery”, Ella concluded within herself that “Perfection” wouldn’t be bad along side “bravery”.

During the Love Feast held by the Youths in her Aunty’s church, she met Roland who embodied the qualities she booked in her book. Since they shared certain similarities, thorough examination lost its place between them. Roland had this jaw dropping smile that assured her of a joyous future they shared. His voice supersedes ” melodious “, it beats her fantasy. This she realised when he sang Atanda’s Agbeke. A song that gets every African lady head over heels, get yours here https://my.notjustok.com/track/381317/atanda-agbeke.

Little did she know he was her own Mourinho, until after 3 years of monthly depreciation like her menstrual cycle. It was discovered that Roland was the President of Unsaved Brothers Association (UBA) in Church and was rewarded hugely by other members of the association having completed their project on a first timer in church.

It was in an attempt to make a cup of tea in the same kitchen she had her quest for true love initially to break her lovely fasting session propelled by Roland’s action that she noticed the distinction between the match stick she lit and the others unused in the box. Helplessly, she tagged the distinction “A Change in shape”. A voice travelled through the window, it was her Aunt’s. She only made Ella realise that its shape changed after it has fulfilled its purpose. Moreover, it hasn’t led to a change of name as it still remains a match stick, though used. A “Perfect Match” is a “Match” that must have gone through processing to make it “Perfect”.

The Genuine Perfection we crave is birthed by growing into fullness. Ella thought perfection had its root in innocence, however they are two distinct terms. After a year of dedication to her purpose, she found Mr. Right. He’s been her Aunt’s neighbour whose kitchen was opposite theirs. What a fascinating proximity😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃

Unfortunately, his voice didn’t meet up to Roland’s. The good news is that he’s not here to rob her of her emotions. He’s an Alex Ferguson not a Mourinho.

Sometimes the right ones usually are around and we channel our efforts into futility.

The perfect ones are in “marriage”. This is so because it is only in marriage a glimpse of the supposed relationship perfection we all crave could be caught. The longer people stay together, the more time devoted to work on their imperfections👌👌

It will be time consuming and futile to seek perfection in a person you’re yet to know, don’t paint flawless pictures of Mr/Mrs Right. Imperfections are worked on to achieve desirable results, lets embrace them. Our challenges and past do not define us.

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Mrs A🥰

I am a very simple, God fearing, caring, talented, understanding, trustworthy and kind hearted human being. I believe in the motto ‘Winners are only those that never give up’. I hate liars. I am fun loving, down to earth and very much Optimist. I love travelling, sight seeing, listening to rock music, reading all the latest fiction novels.

11 thoughts on “❤Perfect Match❤💕”

  1. Do you agree with me that some relationships that led to marriage “looks perfect and promising” but when the marital status changes,the marriage is not one inch close to Perfect

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    1. I will agree with the initial part of your comment, Ma’am.
      I disagree with the latter reason being that, people expect too much in marriage while they put in little efforts. I feel they relent on somethings.
      Marriage gives room for endless improvements unlike during courtship when some restrictions existed.

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  2. Do you think all imperfections can be worked on??? imperfections are areas where we make mistake,and some are part of us that’s not easy to let go, sometimes trying to work on all that is not perfect about a person can lead to having a boring partner
    should imperfections be worked on or manage/accepted?

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    1. I agree..

      Imperfections might be habits, practices or errors.
      –>Understanding and accepting the fact that imperfection lies in every human is the first step to be taken towards adjustment.
      –>step 1 will create a room for correction in love. Love is patient and kind, remember!
      –>However, nagging might lead to boredom. That’s why everything must be done lovably.
      –> Constant self assessment should also be carried out to aid positive changes
      –>Those imperfections that cannot be totally eradicated should be managed.

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  3. There is always room for improvement in courtship rather than marriage because you prepare for marriage,you don’t prepare in marriage. Anything you fail to correct before getting married is likely to be corrected when you are married. sometimes enduring those things can now be difficult and unbearable,and when you complain,it irritate the partner. Reasons why we have broken marriage. A broken relationship they say is better than a broken marriage.

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  4. 👏👏👏👏👌👌👌👌
    God bless you ma’am.

    However trying to obtain a flawless lifestyle before marriage push some youths into pretence thereby leading to marriage failure.
    I believe it doesn’t have to be flawless in marriage though….its time to put some finishing touches on the amendment started earlier.

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  5. This is beautiful and intriguing. A short anecdote before a great message is passed always turns me on. Many of us have forgotten that relationship is about two imperfect persons who work on their imperfections perfectly. I am not really convinced that we have to get married to work on this imperfection. And the fact that Ella’s true love and replica of perfect match was from where she never envisaged sealed the saying that “we always find love in a hopeless place.” I love the diction used. Nice Job❤❤❤❤

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